So it has been a little while since I wrote an update to what has been going on. Here are the basics
I got put up for a promotion at work for which I had to do an interview. I am the level below the job, but at a big store so it would be a step up for me to get it. The person I am against the the level above the job, so would be stepping down to take it, but it is in a much harder store so would be better pay and more of a challenge. She had more experience than me, but guess what, I smashed it. They were impressed by my prep work, as well as my passion for the brand and my turn out. Who knew I am articulate and can actually sell myself when I am honest about my motivations and my goals.
My FWB has been very fun. We have been meeting up once or twice a week now and it is good. I saw her two nights in a row and she had a great time by all accounts. I am the first guy she has been with to give her an orgasm through penetrative sex, and I can understand why, but I won’t go into the details, this is a reasonably family friendly blog! By leaving my job she will no longer be next door to me so it will be more difficult to meet her, but it will distance us, which is good as she is concerned she may develop feelings. Also, apparently unusually, her tennant in her house likes me because I can chat crap with him, and her best friend described me as “well spoken and not her usual type”. Her best friend also appologised to me as she had texted me off the FWB’s phone and said some things which made me sound like I was not performing in my duties, but she was being a wind up artist. I took it seriously and questioned the FWB later on, and she explained the joke, and actually got the best friend to appologise when she met me because she realised I am not a complete dickhead, nor am I bad at what I do. There was curiosity in her eyes, but I am not going to be a dick.
Engaged girl and The RAF guy went for a drive after work one night with one of her friends. We went for a drink then drama occurred and she is no longer engaged (again). This one was much harder to do as myself and the RAF guy were with her to talk her down. She had chemistry with me, as well as having now slept with RAF guy while engaged so it was inevitable that she would break off her engagement. I woke up at 7 that day, with only 3 hours sleep. I did a full shift at work and then went out with them and dealt with all their drama, not getting home until 5:30am the next day, where I had to be up a few hours later to get back to work. I was shattered, but she was ok and so was he, so that is all that matters.
Speaking of the RAF guy, I had him on the phone last night. He had a minor freak out after basically not sleeping for the last 6 days and is hallucinating, as well as really struggling with a few other demons. I had to talk him down, as well as give him direct orders as to what he needed to do to get his life back on track. They were not life changing, but sometimes giving someone a focus can help them power through what they are dealing with, and even help them get past it.
I am growing my beard out again and I like it. I keep getting compliments on it and it is getting thicker which is always good. My brother has started his new job at a supermarket to make some money. What he hasn’t told my parents is that he is deferring a year at university, which will mean he is home for another year. That will go down badly I suspect, I did not even consider that option when I went as it would have been sacrilegious, but you never know, he always gets away with everything.
This is my current jam. I play it on repeat and it may not be the best track, but I can zone out to it and work/walk/focus/do whatever to it
I tried to sprint to the bass drop, I nearly died that was so hardcore.
This chick who I have liked the entire time I have been in my location has finally admitted she likes me and has learnt how to be more flirty because of me. I am outrageous with her, and we get mocked all the time for it. It is just how we interact. I picked her brains for advice before my interview as she had just been interviewed by one of the people 2 weeks prior for the same job elsewhere so I wanted her opinions. I got her into my room and grilled her about interview technique and what he is like, as well as positives to mention. It got to a point where I was working over my stuff to improve it and she was lying on my bed, so I told her go to sleep and I will wake you up when you need to go, so she did just that. She napped on my bed while I worked away. I felt kind of good that she trusted me enough to do that. She has some body issues as she is what would be described as curvy, but I think she is awesome. Coincidentally she is the complete opposite of my FWB is short, blonde, blue eyed, skinny, crazy, light skinned and English. Other one is taller than me, brunette, brown eyes, curvy, shy, olive skinned and half Portuguese and half South African. I do love mixed girls, they just seem to have something about them which makes me go mmm!
Well this is over 1000 words, time to reign it in. Thanks again Netty. Loves